Myth
Suicidal people just want to die.
Fact
Most of the time, suicidal people are torn between wanting to die and wanting to live. Most suicidal individuals don't want death; they just want to stop the great psychological or emotional pain they are experiencing.
Myth
People who commit suicide do not warn others.
Fact
Eight out of every 10 people who kill themselves give definite clues to their intentions. They leave numerous clues and warnings to others, although clues may be non-verbal or difficult to detect.
Myth
People who talk about suicide are only trying to get attention. They won't really do it.
Fact
Few commit suicide without first letting someone know how they feel. Those who are considering suicide give clues and warnings as a cry for help. Over 70% who do threaten to commit suicide either make an attempt or complete the act.
Myth
Don't mention suicide to someone who's showing signs of depression. It will plant the idea in their minds and they will act on it.
Fact
Many depressed people have already considered suicide as an option. Discussing it openly helps the suicidal person sort through the problems and generally provides a sense of relief and understanding. It is one of the most helpful things you can do.
Information provided by Didi Hirsch Community Mental Health Center (DHCMHC) and the Suicide Prevention Center (SPC).
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